Break The Seal: Backstage Pass
So you answered the challenge questions…
Perhaps you tried to share with her and it went sideways.
Or maybe you didn't even try - because you already know that she's going to get defensive… or shut down… or turn it into something it's not.
Either way, now you're not sure what to do next.
You want someone who can help you look at your situation and show you what you're not seeing.
Backstage Pass is designed to do just that.
You share your challenge answers with me and I give you my honest perspective, taking all "the things" into consideration.
Because I know it's complicated and easier said than done and there's at least 22 well what about's to factor into the equation.
And that's why it doesn't matter how many books, reels, podcasts, message boards or topic threads you consume if you aren't able to make it work for YOUR relationship.
If you want someone on your team to help you protect the covenant you made long ago, OH HI.
My job is to help you see what's hiding in plain sight.
Which is why Backstage Pass is short and sweet.
You need ONE focus, ONE small change to reroute what's gone off track.
Not a generic playbook. Not some 47-step plan you know you won't follow through on.
Just one clear, actionable (and achievable) step.
How It Works:
1. Purchase Backstage Pass via the button on this page
2. I'll send you my Voxer contact info upon purchase
We'll use Voxer - a voice messaging app. You'll be talking, not typing.
3. You share your situation
Share whatever did or didn't happen when you took the challenge, and the questions you have about it.
4. We dig
I'll ask some follow-up questions so I get a full picture of what's going on.
5. I send you my take
I'll share my perspective as someone who isn't "in the weeds" with you. Then I'll give you my direction and recommendation SPECIFIC to your situation, one that gets you closer to her without compromising yourself.
No Scheduling. No Calls. No Pressure.
We'll be using Voxer, a voice/text messaging app. There's no "calendar chess" here where you need to rearrange your schedule to find a timeslot that works. You send your replies when you want, when you can.
Midnight when you can't sleep? Fantastic.
Lunch break in your car? No problem.
Only have 5 minutes in between meetings? Something came up and need to finish later? Have an unpredictable schedule and can't commit to a time in advance?
Welcome to life - this was made exactly for YOU.
What You Get:
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Real human interaction - because a chatbot, course or template is the last thing you're looking for
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Asynchronous time freedom - appointments and availability are no longer an obstacle in getting the support you're looking for
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My honest perspective on your situation - if you're reading this, I've likely been in her shoes AND yours
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One clear next step - custom and relevant to YOUR situation and circumstances
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A sample of how I work - if we're a fit for deeper work, you'll know
To avoid any confusion, let's make this clear:
This is NOT:
  • …therapy. I'm not a therapist. If you need one, go get one.
  • … a quick fix. I'm not giving you a script to manipulate her into doing what you want.
  • … a venting session. I'll listen, but I'm also going to challenge you. That's the whole point.
  • … for everyone. If you're looking for someone to pat you on the back and tell you she's the problem - I'm not your person. Go find a yes-man.
This is for the man who's willing to look at himself.
The man who knows something's off and is ready to finally do something about it.
If that's you, scroll down and let's get started.
Ready for a different perspective?
$97
Get Your Backstage Pass
Fine print if you're still thinking about it…
Yep, $97. I know. It's bananas. You get real 1:1 access to me to break down your challenge answers. Not with a chatbot, intern or custom GPT. Not a course login where you go watch some videos and figure it out yourself.
It's ME listening to YOU. Asking a few follow-up questions if I need to, and actually thinking about your situation. Once I get a clear picture, I'll give you YOUR one, most effective move you should take to make the biggest leap forward.
And yes, I said one clear next step. Because that's how potent this is.
How long will this take? It depends on what you're dealing with and how many follow-up questions are necessary. Context and details are crucial which is why this is an interactive offer right off the bat. It shouldn't take weeks, but it's not a pizza ready in 30 minutes either. I'm going to actually look at what you share with me. I'm going to take everything into account and help you figure this out - as fast as possible.
You already heard me say in the challenge: if the world was ending tomorrow, you'd do everything differently. Nothing external would need to change. You'd just DO, BE, GO.
But if you want me to point you in the right direction, you can invest $97 here and save yourself a boatload of time and DIY effort.
"Oh but it's $97 now, then how much after that??" - No catches here, no hidden fees. This is a one-time payment. Backstage Pass is for specifically going over your challenge answers and I'll point out the biggest roadblock/blindspot you're not seeing. Then I'll give you one relevant thing you need to focus on to overcome it. This is "small" on purpose. I'm not going to promise you pie-in-the-sky transformation in 5 days. Don't underestimate the power of this - time and time again I've seen one insight be THE thing that shifts the heart. And I hope it does and that you never need my services again. (Worst business model ever, you're welcome!) But: if after this I've earned your trust and you find value in hiring me to help you navigate rough water for a little bit longer after that? That's completely up to you.
Decision time. $97. Start here, and see if it fits. Zero commitment, no FOMO subscription plan to keep you hooked. You've likely blown more on junk you don't need in the past week alone. And none of that changed the trajectory of your marriage. This will.